The Doctor gave me an "Aha"

For about a month I have heard consistently from others how much "J" has changed. It has been said that he is a completely different child since he came to live with us in October. I have even said these words, but until today I don't think I really realized how much he really has changed! "J" had a doctor's appointment today. The last time we saw this particular doctor (who I love by the way) was at the beginning of November. "J" and I did the whole down to a dry diaper thing, got weighed, measured, I expressed my concerns, and then we waited in that tiny room for the doctor. I held "J" on my lap and he played with some beads that were build into the wall. The doctor came in a few minutes later to see "J" sitting quietly and calmly on my lap. He gave her a big smile and waved when she said hi. The 3 year resident behind her who entered only got a stink eye from "J", but I think that was because he has a bea