The BIG Visit DAY!

Tomorrow the social worker comes to question us and tour the house to see that it is all up to code and we are acceptable as a foster family.  Of course I spent the time I could this weekend organizing and cleaning.  And of course I took out my back on Saturday which rendered me immobile for half of Saturday and slow as molasses on Sunday!

I don't know why I feel the need to make the house spotless and perfect!  I even caught myself getting stressed out because I had a nail on the wall and no picture there!  It has been that way since we moved in and I never gave it a second glance before, but now suddenly it is going to be what makes me a good parent??

Maybe I should be more concerned with having this in my house then an empty nail?!!

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